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Until Men Are Transformed, the Abuse Won’t Stop

Laws, rescuing victims, and awareness campaigns matter. But trafficking will continue until the men who fuel it are changed. 99% of sex buyers are men. The fight against trafficking begins here.

99% of sex buyers are men. The fight against trafficking begins here.

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When men change, the world changes

Our culture has twisted masculinity into consumption and control. Men are taught to take, not to cherish. This distortion of sex, power, and identity drives the exploitation of women and children.

Real change means reshaping manhood itself—toward love, dignity, and responsibility. At Wilber, we believe men can be remade into protectors instead of exploiters.

Wilber’s Model

Technology with a Heartbeat

We meet men at the very crossroads of exploitation—the moment they are about to buy. Then we guide them onto a new path.

Intersection X
Sex Exploration Exit Model
1.
Intercept the Search
Decoy listings on commercial sex sites connect men with our AI chatbot. At the very moment they are about to purchase, they encounter an unexpected interruption—an exit path.
2
Start the Conversation
The chatbot engages with provocative questions and offers men a resource page with truth-filled videos and stories.
3
Connect with People
If men reach out further, real volunteers join the conversation. With boldness and compassion, they use motivational interviewing, attentive listening, and honest testimony to help men confront their choices.
4
Equip the Journey
Men are guided toward recovery resources like Pure Desire groups, long-term accountability, and ongoing invitations. Transformation takes time. We stay with them.

Why This Works

  • Intervening at the point of intent reduces harmful actions
  • Men who receive compassion instead of condemnation are more open to lasting change
  • Real stories show the power: “I didn’t expect compassion. I expected judgment. Instead, I found a way out.” — Former buyer

The Heart Behind the Work

We believe most men have not been fathered well. Without love, discipline, and truth, they are set up for failure—and often end up seeking intimacy in destructive ways.

But there is hope. When men encounter grace, truth, compassion, and community, they can be set free forever.

Vision

The Transformation of Men

We believe men can be re-formed into protectors instead of exploiters.

We believe a new culture of masculinity can rise up.

And we believe the war against trafficking can be won—one man at a time.

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